Gave tough feedback to someone struggling

Interviewer: Tell me about a time you had to give difficult feedback to someone whose performance was off track. How did you handle it, and what happened?

Asked atAmazon· SDE3Amazon· PrincipalGoogle· L6

Why interviewers ask: The hardest part of Hire & Develop is the develop half when development isn't going well. The interviewer wants to see whether you can be candid early, hold the line on standards, AND care about the person — without flinching or fluffing.

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Your STAR answer

Aim for 80–200 words per letter. Use I not we in Action.

SSituation

Set the scene. Where, when, and what was the context? Keep it tight — 2–3 sentences.

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TTask

What was the goal and your role? Why was this on your plate?

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AAction

Specifically what did YOU do? Use 'I' not 'we'. Concrete steps, decisions, and trade-offs.

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RResult

What was the outcome? Quantify if possible. What did you learn and how did it change you?

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